A personal blog of financial resources for preparing yourself and family for the challenges of life.
Monday, October 5, 2009
Snowbird Customer Appreciation Days
Question and Answer Competition!
Teaching Children – The Value of Money
Your interactions about finances with your children will depend on their age, abilities and comprehension. For example, with a two year old, the ‘discussion’ might include “Money goes in the piggy bank, not your mouth.” They can really enjoy the fun of putting coins in a money bank and it is teaching them to save from a very young age. A discussion with a teenager would be drastically different. For example, talk with them about whether they paid their tithing and ask what it is they are saving their money for, both short-term and long-term goals – clothing, a date, a car, college, mission, etc.
Kids also love spending money. Allow them the opportunity to give money to the cashier when purchasing something small, particularly when it will be something for them. Older children can count out the money and be responsible for that. Not only is it fun for them, they are learning that we don’t get something for nothing.
It is important that children learn the value of money. It will give them a foundation for making wise decisions on how to spend (or save) their money. Young children often don’t understand what items are worth, so telling them that a dollar will buy a candy bar, or rent a movie will help them put it into perspective. Another way to teach the value of money is to explain how long a parent needs to work to earn the money to buy a certain item. Encourage play around money – for example, set up a play store or a pretend garage sale.
Involve your children in your grocery shopping, gift shopping, etc. They will learn very quickly about the value of money. When a child asks for something, it could be the perfect opportunity to talk about how much things cost. Don’t hesitate to let them know if it costs too much, or it isn’t worth the price. Also, encourage them to save for something they really want. Children will learn more from being told no and waiting for their wants than being indulged at the moment.
Christmas Already?
In your Christmas budget planning, decide whether you can afford your Christmas budget. If the money isn’t there and won’t be by Christmas time, get a little more creative with your gifts and spend less. It doesn’t benefit anyone by going into debt for Christmas.
Just to look at some numbers . . .
If you were to spend $500 for Christmas and put it all on your credit card at 13% interest, it would take you 42 months to pay it off with a minimum payment of $15 a month! Or, say you wanted to pay it off in just one year, your monthly payment would be $44.18. You don’t want to be paying for last year’s Christmas when it is time to start thinking about this year’s Christmas. Wouldn’t you be better off to have a light Christmas this year and start saving that $45 a month for next year?
A few other helpful Christmas tips:
Keep your eyes open for sales, clearance items and great deals all throughout the year. If you know the people you are buying for, you can sometimes get great deals long before you think about Christmas. Be cautious though, no matter how good a deal it is, if they aren’t going to like it [or it is a fad that will go out of style], it isn’t worth it. Always keep your receipts and don’t forget what you bought and where you hid it.
Get creative in your giving. Homemade gifts are generally cheaper to give and have a lot more meaning. Gifts of service are sometimes the most valued gifts. It truly is the thought (and time) that counts, not the money.
Make a list of who you really want to give to. It may be nice to give gifts to all your family, friends and neighbors but, is it necessary and can you afford it? Maybe a simple handmade note or card would be enough to tell them that you are thinking of them and care about them. If you were to ask them, they would probably say they would rather you be in a healthier financial situation than to receive a gift from you.
Emergency Fund
When that emergency happens, and you do have to use some of your ‘rainy day’ fund, it will be a blessing. You won’t have to use credit to fund your emergency and you will have more peace in your lives knowing that you can weather the storm. Think of it as your financial food storage and don’t forget to replenish it after use. Come up with a plan of how to save and build your fund (budgets are great tools for this) and DO IT.
A family in the ward recently experienced the blessings of having an emergency fund and being prepared for the future:
Several years ago we started a dedicated savings (emergency fund) by adding some tax money here, a bonus there, and $10/ month. When we paid off a bill, we increased the amount we saved each month.
Our family van died on a Friday. We had no money for payments on a used one. Since we had our emergency fund and had saved a little of our tax return for a shed, we knew we had a certain amount of money we could spend for a used van. It wasn’t much, so we took it to the Lord. We told the Lord we needed a safe vehicle and didn’t want to go into debt. We told the Lord the amount of money we had and asked him to guide us to find something reliable. We fasted on Sunday and by Monday we had a van. Between the van, inspection and licensing, it was the amount we told the Lord we had available. Because of our emergency fund, prayers and miracles, we were back on the road in 5 days.
Friday, October 2, 2009
Free at Tracy Aviary
Monday, September 14, 2009
Free Days at the Zoo
Monday, September 7, 2009
Great Lesson on Provident Living
The RS President shared a story about Gullible Gulls related by Pres. Marion G. Romney. The article, "The Celestial Nature of Self-Reliance" has been re-printed in the March 2009 Ensign and can also be found online. She also encouraged everyone to think of what they can change or do better at and to write it down and do it.
Bishop relayed a lesson his brother learned from a church training meeting that no matter how well you treat your wife, you can always do better. He applied that to welfare and service: No matter how much you give or serve, you can always do better.
These are a few brief recollections I have from this great lesson, but it was tape recorded. If you missed attending this meeting and are interested in listening to the recording, leave a comment and I will get back to you or you can contact the RS President to get the recording.
Wednesday, July 29, 2009
Thanksgiving Point in August
Saturday, July 18, 2009
July Ensign Resources
Life Insurance
Since most of us are required by stipulations on loans and current laws to have homeowners and automobile insurance, we will focus on life insurance in this issue.
Why do I need life insurance?
Life insurance will not benefit you, but is a protection for your family and those that depend on your income or skills. Death is enough of a stress itself, you don’t want to leave your family and dependants wondering how they are going to survive. Don’t forget to insure those that may not be bringing home a paycheck but if something were to happen to them expenses would go up. For example, if the stay-at-home parent were to pass away, your expenses would increase to pay for child-care, cleaning, etc.
How much life insurance do I need?
All this depends on how much money you are currently making and spending and what you would want to use the life insurance for. To make an informed decision, discuss the future needs of your dependents and what your goals for the life insurance money would be. For example: consider funeral expenses, child care costs, whether you would want to pay off your house and other debts and a college education or mission for your children and how much it would cost to provide comfortably for those left behind. It might be helpful to talk to a financial advisor that can help you determine the right amount for your family. Some very general recommendations are 6-20 times your annual spending or about 10 times your income.
You may have access to life insurance through your employment, bank, credit union, etc. Sometimes this is a very affordable way to get life insurance, but be informed about all the conditions with this policy. Many policies through work are only available as long as you are working for that company, so you don’t want that to be your sole source of life insurance.
What type of life insurance should I get?
This is an ongoing debate: term or permanent life insurance. There are many different philosophies on this. What it boils down to is what your goals are, what you can afford and what works best for the needs of your family.
Term insurance is the most affordable insurance available. However, unlike permanent life insurance, it does not build any cash value. It will only benefit you if you pass away during the term of the insurance (anywhere from 5-30 years). It is truly just a protection plan for your dependents. When purchasing term, decide how long you anticipate needing it for, because the older you get, the more you will be paying for insurance.
Permanent insurance or cash value insurance is essentially term insurance combined with a forced savings plan. It is significantly more expensive than term insurance (5-10 times more) and takes a few years for the cash value to build (the first few years premiums are paying for the insurance portion). You can access the cash in your policies, if needed, for retirement and other financial needs but that will take away from the ‘death benefit’ available for your survivors. There are many varieties of permanent insurance available, so if this is of interest to you, talk to a professional or spend some quality time researching your options.
Many financial experts recommend ‘buying term and investing the difference’. You have more flexibility and control over your money and may get a better return by investing and saving elsewhere than you do by saving through a life insurance policy.
Things to keep in mind when buying life insurance:
· Make a Plan – Decide what you use the life insurance money for and how much you need
· Do Your Research – Decide what type of insurance you want and research the company you are considering (you can find ratings for companies online)
· Find Someone You Trust – If you are going through an agent, ask for recommendations from friends and family. Find someone who has been in the business for a while, knows what they are doing and you can trust.
· Just Do It – Don’t put it off. Life insurance is planning for the unexpected and you never know when you will need it.
Additional resources:
Smart Couples Finish Rich. Bach, David (pgs.162-170).
MSN Money
The Raging Debate Over Term vs. Whole Life
5 Life Insurance Blunders to Avoid
Your 5-minute Guide to Life Insurance
http://articles.moneycentral.msn.com/Insurance/InsureYourLife/InsureYourLife.aspx
Check Life Insurance Company’s Ratings http://www.insure.com/articles/interactivetools/ratingslookuptool/sandp/newtool1.jsp
Wednesday, July 1, 2009
Free Fun Ideas
FREE Fun Available in:
Salt Lake City:
· Sweet’s Candy Factory – free tours, http://www.sweetcandy.com/
· Downtown Historic Tours – Temple Square, Cathedral of the Madeleine, Governor’s Mansion, State Capitol, Daughters of the Utah Pioneers Museum, Church History Museum - http://www.utah.com/cities/slc_walking.htm
· Clark Planetarium – the displays are all free but there is a charge for the shows, http://www.clarkplanetarium.org/
· Gateway – kids love to play in the water fountain
· Utah Museum of Natural History – free on the first Monday of every month, http://www.umnh.utah.edu/
· Red Butte Gardens – free days http://www.redbuttegarden.org/plan-your-visit/FreeGardenGiftDays
· Concerts in the Park - Brigham Young Historic Park - http://www.lds.org/placestovisit/location/0,10634,1893-1-1-1,00.html
· Salt Lake City movies in the parkhttp://www.slcityevents.com/friday_night_flicks.htm
· West Jordan movies in the park and events - http://www.wjordan.com/Visitor.aspx?pgID=6.1
· West Jordan Historical Museum - http://www.wjhistory.org/
· Salt Lake City Library – Exploration Passes – admittance for 4 to a number of local parks or museums for a month’s time period http://www.slcpl.lib.ut.us/details.jsp?parent_id=10&page_id=250
· Hiking in the canyons
· Jordan River Parkway – parks, paths, playgrounds - http://www.parks.slco.org/html/jordan.html
· Lowes Build and Grow Clinics - https://www.lowesbuildandgrow.com/
· Barnes and Nobles storytimes and events - http://store-locator.barnesandnoble.com/store/2137
Provo:
· BYU Museum of Art - http://cfac.byu.edu/index.php?id=194
· Monte L. Bean Museum (at BYU) – http://mlbean.byu.edu/home/
Park City:
· Utah Olympic Park - http://www.olyparks.com/uop/tours.asp
· Rail Trail – great biking trail http://www.americantrails.org/nationalrecreationtrails/trailNRT/unionpacific-ut.html
Quotes from "Becoming Provident Providers Temporally and Spiritually"
Some quotes from his talk:
All of us are responsible to provide for ourselves and our families in both temporal and spiritual ways. To provide providently, we must practice the principles of provident living: joyfully living within our means, being content with what we have, avoiding excessive debt, and diligently saving and preparing for rainy-day emergencies. When we live providently, we can provide for ourselves and our families and also follow the Savior’s example to serve and bless others.
When faced with the choice to buy, consume, or engage in worldly things and activities, we all need to learn to say to one another, “We can’t afford it, even though we want it!” or “We can afford it, but we don’t need it—and we really don’t even want it!”
Vacation Cheaply
Utah is abound with wonderful places to visit and things to see. Pick a city, a national park or landmark that you haven’t visited recently, or ever, and plan an overnighter or a few days around that location. If you do your research, you can have a well-planned and cheap vacation. Make sure that you budget for your trip and all expenditures (including small souvenirs) and stick to your budget.
The internet is an incredible resource for planning vacations (and is available free at the library). Many online visitors bureaus and city tourist websites will mail you information, brochures and coupons to help you plan your vacation. Ask other people about where they have vacationed and what they like to do in certain cities. Sometimes the most enjoyable and free outings are not always listed in the brochures.
Also, the Salt Lake County Libraries have state park passes available for check-out. They are available for one week, (check-out on Wed and due back the following Tues). The passes allow free day use at almost all state parks and a discount on camping fees. Each library location has only one pass available on a first-come, first-served basis.
Tips for Vacationing Cheaply:
- Travel close, save on gas
- Pack your lunch
- Stay somewhere that includes a continental breakfast
- Stock the hotel fridges with breakfast and lunch supplies
- Use coupons
- Plan in advance what your activities will be and budget for them
- Contact the city, county or state you will be vacationing for travel info
- Look into passes for zoos, museums, etc – sometimes local ones are reciprocal in other states
- Search around for great deals – sometimes you can get package deals (airfare, rental car, etc)
- Don’t forget the library – travel books, atlases, state park passes, local exploration passes, etc
Just a few Utah Travel Websites:
http://www.visitsaltlake.com/visit/
http://www.2chambers.com/tourist40.htm - Lists major cities in Utah and websites for their visitors bureaus
http://www.utah.com/
http://travel.utah.gov/
Spring Cleaning
It’s that time of year again – spring cleaning! As you are cleaning your baseboards and blinds, don’t forget your files. What do you really need to keep and for how long should you keep it???
- Taxes – 7 years, just to be safe.
- IRA contributions – don’t toss! Keep permanently.
- Retirement/ savings plan statements – Keep the quarterly statements until you receive the annual statement, but keep the annual statements until you close the account.
- Bank records/utilities – Keep for a year and then you only need to keep those related to taxes, business expenses, home improvements and mortgage payments after that.
- Brokerage statements – Keep until you sell the securities.
- Credit card receipts and statements – Keep seven years if it documents tax related things, otherwise you can shred after you receive your statement.
- Paycheck stubs – Keep until you receive your W2. If they match, you can shred.
- House records – Keep all records regarding permanent improvements until you sell, expenses incurred in buying and selling keep for six years.
- Receipts – It’s a good idea to have a filing system for all those receipts that accumulate. I like to file them by date after they are recorded in my finance software. I just staple them all together. That way, if I need to return something, I can find the receipt. Periodically clean them out (monthly – quarterly) and keep only those related to business expenses, taxes and large purchases.
Resources:
http://www.bankrate.com/brm/news/mtg/20000518h.asp
http://www.kiplinger.com/columns/ask/archive/2002/q0325.htm
http://www.bluesuitmom.com/career/getorganized/receipts.html
Employment Quotes and Tips
The Church’s website: http://www.providentliving.org/ is a wonderful resource for employment help. There is even a new section with job search tips (for ex: Networking, Interview Techniques, Resume Writing and much more). It also has links to many other resources that can assist you in a job search. If you don’t need it, tell someone else about it!
Four steps which are important in obtaining the right employment. They are: first, to invite the Lord’s help in this important search; second, to plan ahead carefully; third, to gather all possible necessary information; and fourth, proper vocation or education preparation.
Howard W. Hunter, “Prepare for Honorable Employment,” Ensign, Nov 1975, 122
In these days of worldwide heavy unemployment, we should not allow ourselves, when we are out of work, to sit back and wait for “our type of job” if other honorable interim employment becomes available.
Marvin J. Ashton, “One for the Money,” Ensign, Sep 2007, 36–39
Tax Time
- Pay off your debt – especially credit card or consumer debt
- Build your emergency fund – a great goal is to have 3-6 months living expenses saved in an emergency fund (for example a money market account)
- Open a money market account or CD– start earning interest, instead of just paying it
- Build up your food storage
- Add to your retirement savings
- Fix that home improvement problem that has been waiting for the funds
- Save for your children’s missions or colleges
- Start or add to your car savings account so that you can pay cash for your next car
- Go on a small family vacation and make some memories
Surviving Unemployment - Tips from the Survivors
Financially
- Get rid of all unnecessary spending. For example: internet, cell phones, cable, music lessons, sports, eating out, gym memberships, new clothes, etc.
- Avoid spending temptations – don’t go to stores or look at ads.
- Be willing to work anywhere while you look for the right job. Temporary jobs help pay the bills.
- Consider pulling money out of your 401k or retirement accounts.
- Have a garage sale or sell any big money items you own. For example: pianos, antiques, boats, RVs
- Use your food storage.
- Be creative in your entertainment. “We found joy in creativity. We explored new ways of using our food storage, disguised ourselves in costumes to teach our kids, learned new ways to make our resumes more exciting, and thought up creative free dates.”
Emotionally
- Be as self sufficient as possible, it will give you confidence in yourself.
- Take walks or other enjoyable and free stress relievers.
- Be honest when people ask how you are and know the friends that you can talk to for support.
- Remember your blessings and think positively.
- Don’t give up your dates and time together as a couple. Just get creative in how you accomplish them. The temple is always free.
Spiritually
- Keep up your spiritual routines—reading scriptures, prayer, Family Home Evening and attending church.
- Pay an honest tithing. The Lord will keep His promises.
- Pray often and honestly. Share your frustrations and specific needs with the Lord and let Him lighten your load.
- Go to the temple often and put your name on the prayer roll. “In the temple, we found great peace and realized that there is so much more to life than earning money. Sometimes when it was too hard to pray at home, I escaped to the temple, where it was much easier.”
- Serve in your calling faithfully.
- Trust in the Lord. He will abide by His promises, but on His time table.
- Meet with the bishop often and be honest about where you are at.
Tips on Finding a Job
- Maintain a daily routine. Get up early and work a full day, just like you have a job. It gives you a sense of normalcy and helps fight discouragement.
- Dress for the day and your job search, even if you are only at home on the internet or phone.
- Let people know you are looking for work. You're more likely to find a job when many people are helping you look for one. It’s not only what you know, but who you know that can help you find employment.
- Take advantage of all the resources available to you: the Ward Employment Specialist, LDS Employment Resource Service Centers (career classes and counseling), http://www.providentliving.org/, Department of Workforce Services and the library (free internet, books to help with resumes, job hunting, etc). These are just a few.
- Be flexible . . . about your job title, how much you want for wages or salary, benefits, and where you'll find work. You may end up finding work that is quite different from your previous job.
- Be organized. Use a 3-ring binder to keep track of jobs you have applied for and places you have left resumes. Refer to and follow up often.
- Be a supportive spouse by continuing to show love and confidence. Be careful at how involved you get: “I had to learn not to ask too many questions about the job hunt so I wouldn't come across as critical.”
If you want more information and tips, read these articles in past issues of the Ensign.
Joy K. Young, “Surviving Unemployment,” Ensign, Feb 1991, 42
Faye B. Woolley, “Our Unemployment Survival Kit,” Ensign, Jun 1985, 47
“Helping Marriage Survive Unemployment: Seven Principles,” Ensign, Apr 2004, 62
Online Course - Peace in Your Hearts
How Do We Weather This Turbulent Economy?
The experts from Investing In An Uncertain Economy for Dummies say: “Uncertain economic times come and go. These times can be especially challenging if you aren’t prepared for them. No one knows exactly when a major economic event will occur or what it’ll look like, but if you’re prepared, you stand a good chance of weathering it.”
How can we prepare for what is to come? Follow the counsel given from the First Presidency found in the All Is Safely Gathered In pamphlet. If you don’t have a copy, look online at http://www.providentliving.org/ or ask a member of the bishopric, Relief Society or Elder’s Quorum presidencies. Another great resource from the church is the One for the Money (pamphlet by Marvin J. Ashton) that can also be found online.
If you have the basics under control and are still concerned about how to invest in this economy, here are a few tips from Investing In An Uncertain Economy for Dummies:
· Make sure you have a cash reserve (emergency fund) in a safe, secure, accessible place such as a savings account or money market account.
· Stay out of debt. Pay off your mortgage as soon as possible.
· Keep your job skills current and broad.
· Diversify your investments. Mutual funds are an easy way to diversify.
· Avoid the next hot investment. Follow the church’s advice to “Avoid all proposals for high-risk investments and get-rich-quick schemes.” (One For The Money)
· Keep investing on a regular basis. Automate your savings - if you are investing regularly regardless of the economy, you are taking advantage of the lower prices. “A decline in prices means investments are on sale.” (Investing in an Uncertain Economy for Dummies)
· Don’t panic. If you sell now, you will eventually be buying again (buying high, selling low). “Don’t watch, listen to, or read too much commentary. During a downturn, the news media has plenty of disheartening stories. The talking heads and bloggers are there for infotainment, not to make you money.” (Investing in an Uncertain Economy for Dummies)
New Year's Resolutions
Build your emergency fund: a good target is 3-6 months of living expenses, but start with just a month if that is too overwhelming.
Dump your debt: start paying as much as you can afford on your lowest debt amount. When that is paid off, use that amount to pay off the next largest debt.
Save for that future expense: don’t forget your car, washing machine, etc (you name it) doesn’t last forever. If you know that yours is getting close to the end, save for the next one so you can pay cash!
Plan for retirement, college, vacations: Determine what is important to your family and make a plan to pay for it!
Create and live by your budget: if you don’t have one, make a goal to create your budget and then use it.
The key is to prioritize your goals, make a plan, stick to it and review your plan periodically. Just as with any goal, it won’t get accomplished if you don’t set the goal, write it down and review your progress. Good Luck!
Welcome
Most of the posts will be from the Wise Stewards Newsletters published every quarter. So, if you have lost your newsletters (or thrown them away already) but want to refer to the information, it will be available here. We will also attempt to post great deals, upcoming free events and in general, ways to save money. Enjoy!